Thanks Igor. Have a look at /var/log/plesk/apache_restart_stat.log pre & post upgrade:
Onyx:
2020-02-03T04:57:55.855Z,6883,"graceful-req",true,6.11954
2020-02-03T07:32:24.209Z,28017,"graceful-req",true,10.4599
2020-02-03T07:59:57.270Z,18756,"graceful-req",true,5.23641
2020-02-03T08:57:54.698Z,3222,"graceful-req",true,9.07493
2020-02-03T15:30:36.677Z,20793,"graceful-req",true,10.3177
2020-02-03T19:40:53.950Z,25415,"graceful-req",true,9.67908
2020-02-03T21:58:12.655Z,8616,"graceful-req",true,8.2042
2020-02-04T01:49:44.257Z,17991,"graceful-req",true,8.52452
2020-02-04T01:54:56.958Z,18741,"graceful-req",true,8.16627
2020-02-04T09:27:04.962Z,2627,"graceful-req",true,9.76969
2020-02-04T09:32:11.763Z,3596,"graceful-req",true,4.03538
2020-02-04T10:15:33.975Z,11881,"graceful-req",true,8.17584
2020-02-04T15:31:31.511Z,30918,"graceful-req",true,11.0243
2020-02-04T23:57:58.483Z,7985,"graceful-req",true,9.13726
2020-02-05T01:48:28.392Z,22396,"graceful-req",true,5.85421
2020-02-05T02:57:59.850Z,28245,"graceful-req",true,7.1734
2020-02-05T03:57:55.411Z,24478,"graceful-req",true,9.15592
2020-02-05T04:41:03.104Z,1993,"graceful-req",true,10.7638
Obsidian:
2020-02-05T10:37:17.232Z,25109,"graceful-req",false,5.46511
2020-02-05T10:38:52.120Z,25109,"stop-start",true,94.8702
2020-02-05T22:25:12.716Z,27675,"graceful-req",false,8.6504
2020-02-05T22:26:47.754Z,27675,"stop-start",true,95.0165
2020-02-06T00:25:06.569Z,27577,"graceful-req",false,11.0113
2020-02-06T00:26:41.570Z,27577,"stop-start",true,94.9788
2020-02-06T01:48:34.879Z,20650,"graceful-req",false,8.62033
2020-02-06T01:50:09.771Z,20650,"stop-start",true,94.8759
2020-02-06T01:55:21.121Z,22426,"graceful-req",false,7.8849
2020-02-06T01:56:56.067Z,22426,"stop-start",true,94.9395
2020-02-06T22:38:35.925Z,18882,"graceful-req",false,10.3857
2020-02-06T22:40:10.957Z,18882,"stop-start",true,95.0126
2020-02-07T01:19:28.342Z,13437,"graceful-req",false,10.9966
2020-02-07T01:21:03.391Z,13437,"stop-start",true,95.0419
2020-02-07T01:26:12.907Z,20158,"graceful-req",false,6.68214
2020-02-07T01:27:47.789Z,20158,"stop-start",true,94.8762
2020-02-07T02:00:53.252Z,26794,"graceful-req",false,6.76953
2020-02-07T02:02:28.309Z,26794,"stop-start",true,95.0501
2020-02-07T02:24:52.122Z,19188,"graceful-req",false,11.0279
2020-02-07T02:26:27.195Z,19188,"stop-start",true,95.0651
2020-02-07T03:25:23.553Z,16484,"graceful-req",false,9.1991
2020-02-07T03:26:58.726Z,16484,"stop-start",true,95.1648
Why do we see stop-start after graceful on Obsidian?