Thanks for some extremely useful info - I'm very greatful!
Using webmail to send to that email address resulted in:
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Your connecting IP is: [my main server's public IP]
Please visit our web page at:
http://postmaster.aol.com for more information about AOL Email Policies and methods to fix delivery issues.
Postmaster Group
America Online, Inc.
1-888-212-5537
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So it may not be the localhost address that is the problem after all and I may be mis-interpreting what has happened.
This is the error generated when sending either by webmail or, as I have just discovered, by using formmail (but that might be a one off error ....)
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Error 421 DYN:T1
421 DYN:T1
http://postmaster.info.aol.com/errors/421dynt1.html
EXPLANATION:
The IP address you are sending from has been blocked due to AOL Member complaints and/or high volumes of e-mail.
SOLUTION:
Complaints:
When an AOL member clicks "this is spam" for a piece of email sent from one of your IPs, this is considered a "complaint". If you are having difficulty with the number of complaints you are receiving, a feedback loop would benefit you. Once you have requested a feedback loop you will be notified when a member clicks "this is spam". See feedback loop for additional information.
Mail Volumes:
America Online has made provisions for those who need to send large amounts of e-mail to our members. The bulk sender list allows for the possibility of large amounts of e-mail sent to AOL. Apply for the bulk sender list online.
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Now we do not send a large volume of email to aol. Of course we do have users who forward email to their own AOL accounts (no more than 5 users!), and as a result a lot of spam gets forwarded, but only to the users own AOL accounts. And since AOL rejects email from made up email addresses, not much will get through, surely?
This is why I thought it must be the localhost address that was triggering it, given that a lot of spam will be generated by bots and viruses and whatever, many of which will probably be sending as localhost.
But I'm starting think maybe I'm completely wrong.
With regards to SPF records ... this is going to be difficult, as you can't add spf records to localcost (can you?).
It is all very confusing.
Faris.