Maybe you should buy other books...
Read this first:
Security through obscurity - Wikipedia
One sentence is pivotal:
"
recommends the usage of security through obscurity as a complementary part of a resilient and secure computing environment"
The problem is that it is rarely used as a "
complementary part", but rather "
instead of".
You can never stop with improving your security. It always ends in risk management.
Having "
security through obscurity" in place always means that there is less effort done getting open security implemented. That's human behaviour.
If you really have proper security in place, the "security through obscurity" part doesn't really increase any security and just becomes a nuisance.
Beginning with "you, not knowing how to implement it"
Furthermore you don't need to change anything in your SSHD config. You can do this in iptables.
No program will be aware of that, neither does Plesk.