ok, so I figured it out... for anyone else that may ever have this question.
First off I have zero experience with mssql databases, so I was pretty much runnin blind here.
So when I installed Plesk I had it install and use, Microsoft SQL server 2005.
Before you can edit the Plesk database you should download SQL server management Studio express, which is free from Microsoft.
Once that is installed on the server running plesk, load it up and you should be able to log into the SQL server using the default admin login for windows.
On the left side you see object explorer, open the following
Databases>psa>Tables then find and right-click on dbo.cp_access - click Open Table. Delete all the entrys you see there.
Once done with that, then find dbo.misc and open that table, at the top of that list there is a param called "Access_Policy" for the val change that to "allow"
That should get you back into your control panel.
To the admins, I know this may seem easy enough by looking at the KB article, but all that is referenced there is using a command-line if you are using mysql. For those that aren't familiar with the other database types, it would be nice to update the KB with other methods.
http://kb.odin.com/en/1024