I hate safe_mode

[jospBln]

hello,

I configured my vhost.conf:
<Directory /home/httpd/vhosts/domain.tv/httpdocs>

AddType phtml-script .phtml
DirectoryIndex index.phtml index.html index.htm index.php
Action phtml-script /cgi-bin/php-cgi
AddHandler phtml-script .phtml
Order allow,deny
Allow from all
<IfModule sapi_apache2.c>
php_admin_flag safe_mode on
</IfModule>
</Directory>

<Directory /home/httpd/vhosts/domain.tv>
php_admin_value safe_mode 0
</Directory>

I did
/usr/local/psa/admin/bin/websrvmng -a

and restarted apache2.

But I still get this php error:
fopen(): SAFE MODE Restriction in effect. The script whose uid is 10004 is not allowed to access /home/httpd/vhosts/domain.tv/httpdocs/bilder/xml owned by uid 30

What can I do?
Please, please, please giv me a hint, it makes me crazzzzzzzzzzzyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!

best regards
josp