bulent
Regular Pleskian
to be honest with this requirements for database under wordpress, not plesk, but even god can't help you, think to double the ram, what about the cpu?and now i hope PLESK may can fix this issue.
probably is not successfuly installed. I used it some times ago with plesk and it shoudn't be a problem, try this method http://devblog.plesk.com/2015/08/adding-custom-php-modules-in-plesk/ it worked for me.successul to install memcached on my site but i can not choose it on W3 Total Cache
Think to move the database on SSD, they are not so expencive now, much faster and have much more iops.My server is 32GB RAM , HHD 6TB SATA with Raid 1
I will advise you to pay someone to make the config and optimisations of the server and someone to make optimisations to WP.As i am not a programmer. and i lose a lot of time MORE THAN A MONTH to trying to config my site for stable by PLESK
you have serious requirements, which will require serious work to give smooth experience to users.